Anshu is a disturbed person these days. Even I, her mother whom she looks for all answers, have nothing to offer her at this stage. I am concerned about her as it is not her nature to be so very engrossed in such a development but she seems to be really in a state where even she is not very certain about herself. She asked me the other day—what is all this called love? I wish I could give her some answer! Is it a feeling of concern for someone that is different from the concern that you have for others? No answer. You have to find your own answer this time.
So, should it be first to fall in love and then marry or to marry a complete stranger and then fall in love with him? The question needs an answer but could there be just one answer for the same as the answer would be subjective. So all said and done, we all have to find our own answer to this question. What baffles me is the situation where both of my daughters have started having a new feeling in them but the origin of this feeling is different in both the cases. But what really matters is the end and not the means, as it is making your peace with your life and spend it happily with someone you really love and care for.
01/27/06 @ 18:42