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Recent comments (19)
In response to: "Subjectivity and Reality...." 1318 days old
by Prashant [Visitor]
I really liked the idea in which you have put the matter of subjectivity and it sure is justified. more…
In response to: "Doubts Assail Me Even Today..." 1325 days old
by skip2468 [Member]
Maybe what we believe about ourselves is a form of self affliction - nobody to blame but ourselves.
See you at my blog sometime? more…
In response to: "Missing You a Lot..." 1375 days old
by [Visitor]
Hello Saroj
If I could I would delete every coment I made on your journal for I put much thought into them and cared as if you were the very best of friends and a true seeker after truth rather than the shallow self-centred person you are.
kh more…
In response to: "" 1381 days old
by [Visitor]
Ahh dear Saroj
It is hardly surprising that you are nearing exhaustion. From what I know of the whole period of preparation and all that is involved up to the great day it is bound to take its toll. But then the day will come and there will be much joy and such a feeling of celebration and happiness for does this new union refelect a d more…
In response to: "Warmth of Old Relationships and Freshness of the New ones...." 1382 days old
by [Visitor]
Wherever balance is achieved it becomes clear that all fears of the unknown were simply unfounded fears of the very nature of life itself in permanent flux. I am very conscious of the wedding day coming very quickly and add to all the hopes and good wishes you have received. And I wonder . . . more…
In response to: "A New Relationship in the Making....." 1383 days old
by [Visitor]
A Postscript. Do not miscalculate the difficulties that accompany change. They may be transient and relatively easy or they mey be difficult as one looks with longing and nostalgia on the past which seemed so certain and comfortable and which we grasp at to reassure ouselves. But grasping is suffering.
I find the following buddhist perspectiv more…
In response to: "A New Relationship in the Making....." 1383 days old
by [Visitor]
I hav no idea why but your posts always speak directly to parts of my soul and mind which immediately grasp what you are saying and feeling.
I do not think that relationships are sapped but, rather, go through cycles of change wher all that they seemed to depend on comes to its natural end. If we accept this we find we are soon enterin more…
In response to: "Marriages Bind the Families......." 1385 days old
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In response to: "Nidhi’s Marriage: The Final Countdown……….." 1386 days old
by [Visitor]
Ahh dear Saroj.
This is a part of life I imagine all mothers go through
"I just wondered—do I really know them or is it only a part of them that I am aware of! It is an aspect of his personality that is new to me."
There is, I think no straightforward answer. In some respects you will always know your children better th more…
In response to: "Nidhi’s Marriage: The Final Countdown……….." 1387 days old
by [Visitor]
I have always considered the arranged marriage to be a strength wherever I have read of it or come across it. In England it is held in low esteem because it is misunderstood and the idea of a marriage built on love holds sway. However, I wonder at this.
Love is not something which suddenly siezes one but something that grows over a pe more…
In response to: "A Dilemma...." 1387 days old
by [Visitor]
It must be very difficult for young women to decide where they stand in relation to tradition within a country that is so quickly modernising to meet Western trends and I hope that India may find a way to take some of the good things that have been developed while rejecting the amoral attitudes so prevalent here and imported from America.
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In response to: "The Eternal Mother in ME............" 1388 days old
by [Visitor]
I continue to read your entries with pleasure and a sense of the great loss that has occured with the breakup of the family in our society makes me ever more fearful that The West who take these things as normal now should spread its decadence so far abroad. Change is inevitable from generation to generation but we have suffered such a quick change more…
In response to: "Togetherness or Love....." 1388 days old
by [Visitor]
What a difficult word Love has become! The Ancient Greeks had five words for Love, of which Agape was the highest and most pure being comppletely unconditional. But your sentence,
"I think it is this feeling of togetherness where we feel that life without the other just could not be possible, "
says all that may be said ab more…
In response to: "The Person who Gives Me Strength...." 1388 days old
by [Visitor]
Hello, Blessings. I am very happy and honoured that you accepted my invitation and this posting of yours has deeply moved me. I feel I can enter your feelings of all that time ago and share the struggle between your deepest most spiritual self, bonded to your husband and child, and the practical self that gave you the calm and strength to go on wit more…
In response to: "The Eternal Mother in ME............" 1390 days old
by [Visitor]
I've just been engrossed in your posts, so interesting to read and beautifully written.
Thank You.
L more…
In response to: "Keeping the Spirit Alive....." 1411 days old
by isadora101 [Member]
It seems the mother's role is the same all over the world, that is to give our daughter's support when they need it.
Whenever there is a problem, 'mother' is the first person our daughters call. more…
In response to: "A New Year...A New List of Resolutions......" 1413 days old
by isadora101 [Member]
A happy new year to you too Kaloo.
New years's resolutions cAN sometimes be hard to sustain. more…
In response to: "Kaizen and ME......" 1462 days old
by prydwen [Member]
I am studying NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) this process is the background of all self improvement books ever written. You can change people and yourself by the use of belief changes, swish patterns and anchoring which allows you to enhance the good feeling you feel about yourself whilst removing the negitives. I do recommend reading about it, more…
In response to: "The Real Me..." 1514 days old
by Shimon [Member]
you've written a very interesting post. you could go the way you've started, searching for the real you from the beginning of life, but you could alsocheck out each of your actions and choices today, and that too would help you understand the real you. I wish you luck in your adventure and your choice more…